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New Year's Eve will be here before you know it. I've started on a few of my resolutions early (because I will never start otherwise). I've been working out regularly, eating *kind of* healthy and am trying to get more sleep. Notice a theme there? It's all about me. I've been feeling a little guilty over the last week or so. I decided to add another goal to my list- ignore the "Mommy guilt".
Mommy guilt is completely different than your good old normal guilt. Normal guilt can be a valuable emotion. You ate the last piece of chocolate cake without offering me some and you feel guilty about it? Good. You should.
Mommy guilt is a totally unnecessary emotion that consumes your heart and sucks it dry of all things happy. It isn't hard wired into your brain until the exact moment you become a Mom. The emotional process of becoming a mother starts with the most amazing love you could ever imagine and, in the same 10 minutes, you wonder if eating too much caramel while pregnant is the reason your baby won't sleep.
There are so many wonderful things about Mommy-hood but I could absolutely, positively do without the extreme guilt I feel for doing something as simple as taking a shower. My daughter cried once because I "never spend any time with her and I'm ALWAYS in the bathroom". Talk about a shot to the heart but do my kids realize that I need to shave?! Let's get something straight- I should NOT feel guilty about personal hygiene. It's not like I'm in there getting my glam on. I literally jump in and out of the shower, brush my teeth and put my wet hair in a pony tail. That's IT. So why do I feel guilty about it?!
While we are on the shower/bathroom topic- this is what my kids were doing while I showered today. Applying real makeup. I thought my daughter had a bruise on her forehead all day until I realized it was shimmering.
ANYWAY...There is nothing wrong with doing something for yourself.
Let me repeat that (for my sake and yours)- there is NOOOOOOTHING wrong for doing something for yourself.
It doesn't matter if you are a SAHM or if you work full time outside of the home. We can not feel guilty about taking a shower, finding time to exercise, driving thru at Starbucks for our sanity a coffee. These are necessary and completely healthy things to do.
Something I find myself doing when I feel the Mommy guilt creeping up- I justify my choices. I'm sure you do it too. I'm a grown women, I don't need to justify why I NEED to get to preschool pickup 4 minutes early so I can sit in the parking lot and check emails while my son is sitting contently in the backseat (and so I can secretly get a good parking spot). And don't get me started about the thought process that occurs when I have to hire a babysitter. The HORROR!
So my resolution this year is to ignore the Mommy guilt, stop justifying my choices and to start enjoying the time I have with my kids. Someday I'll miss that little voice right outside my bathroom door saying "are you DOOOOOONE yet?!".
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