Lets Talk About Sex Baby...

Yes, I am well aware that sex is probably the last thing on most new mommy's mind.  Lets be honest though; it is not the last thing on your husbands mind.  And, unless you are wanting another baby anytime soon you MUST use protection.

There are lots of options for birth control. 

Here are a few:

Condoms

Pros and Cons:

Effective against pregnancy.

Helps prevent STDs.

Inexpensive.

May disrupt or interrupt sex.

Can break.

"The Pill"  Talk to your doctor to find the best option for you.

Pros and Cons:

Very effective against pregnancy when used correctly.

Mentrual Cycles are more regular and cramps are reduced.

Cost $$.

Must remember to take it every day at the same time.

Need a prescription.

May cause side effects such as headache, nausea, and increased appetite.

Does not reduce risk of STD.

Nuva Ring

Pros and Cons:

Very effective against pregnancy if used correctly.

Makes menstrual cycles lighter and more regular.

Does not protect against STD's.

Need a prescription.

Can cause side effects such as headache, nausea, and increased appetite.

Higher risk of blood clots.

**personal note:  I tried this form of BC after my daughter.   It dried up my milk supply.   I was devastated.  I was able to get my milk supply back (later blog post) but beware of using this form of BC if you are nursing!**

IUD

Pros and Cons:

Small, T-shaped device inserted into the uterus to prevent pregnancy.

Safe, effective, and long lasting.

Must be inserted by health care provider.

Costs between $500-$1000 but lasts up to 12 years.

Does not prevent against sexually transmitted diseases.

Abstinence

Pros and Cons:

Your husband or significant other may not love this.

Safe.  

Easy (for you).  

Convenient.  

Prevents against sexually transmitted diseases.

"Family Planning"

Pros and Cons:

Woman gets to know her body and ovulation cycle.

Natural.

Free.

Does not protect agains STDs.

Requires a lot of work.

Failure rate is high.

Source:  http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/prosandcons.html

There are many more options.  Do your research and make sure you sit down and talk to your husband and doctor before making a final decision.